Tuesday 26 August 2014

9 Tips on How to Survive Your First Year of College


























Tips on How to Survive Your First Year of College

The first year of college is one of the best and the most interesting periods of life. You should be strong enough to step into the next stage of your life without doubts and hesitations. On the one hand, it can be stressing to leave your town and start communicating with the people you don’t know, but when you get used to the atmosphere, you’ll really appreciate and love the time spent in college.

Don’t overload your brain with different questions in order to avoid anxiety and fears. You’d better think positively and find more opportunities and pleasant moments during your first year of college. I don’t want to scare you and steal your desire to go to college, but a freshman year can be a challenging thing. I also found it difficult to handle my study when I was a first year student in my college. I couldn’t collect my mind and had no idea how to thrive in that difficult world. Later I bounced back and learned on how to manage my time properly. Moreover, I met a lot of new and exciting people who helped me to be on the positive wave. The main point I want to advise you is that the decisions you make during the freshman year will have a significant impact on your college study and the whole life. These pieces of advice will fill you with confidence and bravery to face harsh realities of the first year in college.

1. Don’t be afraid to leave your comfort zone
When I was a first year student I was a bit shy and I treated going to college as a huge life change. New circle of contacts made me hesitate to step outside my comfort zone. My strong traits of character helped me overcome my fears and inner constraint. There are many wonderful people who can give you a valuable advice and support if you cannot make up your mind to do something. That’s why you should try to be confident while expressing yourself. An active and funny college life will provide you majestic memories.

2. Don’t be afraid to ask for help
There’s a big amount of information you’ve got to know. You might understand how to register for classes, what the names of your professors are or how to do one or another task in a proper way. College is full of students who are former freshmen. They can give you a helping hand, if you don’t know something. Moreover, many professors, teachers and other college members can answer your questions. The sooner you delve into your college life the more chances you’ll have to get the reputation of a successful student and become knowledgeable.

3. Manage your time
Time management is an extremely important skill that will come in handy in everyday usage for the rest of your life. Your future success depends on the way you spend your free time. At college, it’s necessary to find time for studies and for having fun. One of the best ways to manage your time during the first year is to make a schedule. It will help you succeed and reach all goals you need. I always tried to set priorities in my study and paid more attention to the subjects I was really interested in. But it’s better to develop your skills in other subjects as well, because the professors expect you to be prepared and ready to answer.



4. Use the campus study resources
Many students complain about the lack of literature and about the high prices of textbooks. Why not use the resources offered by a college you’re studying at? There are many databases, labs and libraries, which can help you expand your mind. If you have some difficulties, you can get valuable information using e-books that are available through the college account. This abundance of information is created to improve the students’ skills and learning experience.

5. Set priorities
You should find time to cognize yourself and realize what really interests you. Take the responsibility for yourself and choose the list of majors you want to study. Sure, you have the right to change the majors during the course of your college career, but it’s desirable to make a right decision faster. If you’re not sure what subjects to choose, then try to visit a couple of classes in order to understand what is better for you.

6. Look for opportunities
As far as I know, every respected college has a range of student programs, competitions, part-time campus jobs. Plus, you can get acquainted with people who will help you start a successful career. When I was a freshman student I had a chance to take a 4 week course in Europe. Also, many of my friends worked as volunteers at local hospitals.

7. Learn how to prioritize
One of the hardest things to do is to prioritize a student’s life. I want you to know that the most important thing to do is to find balance in various activities of your life. It’s very difficult to deal with different subjects and students’ organizations at the same time. First of all, you need to learn how to manage your time, because it is a key component to academic success. Then you’ll be able to organize and prioritize your study, social and private life.

8. Join student organizations
Nowadays all college campuses offer you a big variety of student organizations. Different social and sport organizations can help you express yourself and discover your interests. As a student of the first course you need to make friends and get involved in different student communities. Your membership will improve your reputation in college and fill your busy student’s life with new emotions and adventures.



9. Enjoy student life
Your study at college can be tough, but this period of life is the most colorful. During you study, you develop your personality both mentally and physically and meet new friends. Moreover, you can have fun, fall in love and enjoy these four greatest years of your life.

I hope this article will rid you of all fears which keep you anxious about your first year. You need to remember that you are the only who’s responsible for your study. That’s why you should learn on how to manage your time and prioritize the main spheres of both college and private life.
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Monday 25 August 2014

jagadeesh krishnan psychologist and International Author






















Once upon a time, there was a herd of forest deer. In this herd was a wise and respected teacher, cunning in the ways of deer. He taught the tricks and strategies of survival to the young fawns.

One day, his younger sister brought her son to him, to be taught what is so important for deer. She said, "Oh brother teacher, this is my son. Please teach him the tricks and strategies of deer." The teacher said to the fawn, "Very well, you can come at this time tomorrow for your first lesson."

The young deer came to the lessons as he was supposed to. When others cut classes to spend all day playing, he remained and paid attention to the good teacher. He was well-liked by the other young bucks and does, but he only played when his class work was complete. Being curious to learn, he was always on time for the lessons. He was also patient with the other students, knowing that some learn more quickly than others. He respected the teacher deer for his knowledge, and was grateful for his willingness to share it.

One day, the fawn stepped in a trap in the forest and was captured. He cried out in great pain. This frightened the other fawns, who ran back to the herd and told his mother. She was terrified, and ran to her brother the teacher. Trembling with fear, crying big tears, she said to him, "Oh my dear brother, have you heard the news that my son has been trapped by a hunter's snare? How can I save my little child's life? Did he study well in your presence?"

Her brother said, "My sister, don't be afraid. I have no doubt he will be safe. He studied hard and always did his very best. He never missed a class and always paid attention. Therefore, there is no need to have doubt or pain in your heart. He will not be hurt by any human being. Don't worry. I am confident he will return to you and make you happy again. He has learned all the tricks and strategies used by deer to cheat the hunters. So be patient. He will return!"
Meanwhile, the trapped fawn was thinking, "All my friends were afraid and ran away. There is no one to help me get out of this deadly trap. Now I must use the tricks and strategies I learned from the wise teacher who taught so well."
The deer strategy he decided to use was the one called, "playing dead." First, he used his hoofs to dig up the dirt and grass, to make it look like he had tried very hard to escape. Then he relieved his bowels and released his urine, because this is what happens when a deer is caught in a trap and dies in very great fear. Next, he covered his body with his own saliva.

Lying stretched out on his side, he held his body rigidly and stiffened his legs out straight. He turned up his eyes, and let his tongue hang out of the side of his mouth. He filled his lungs with air and puffed out his belly. Finally, with his head leaning on one side, he breathed through the nostril next to the ground, not through the upper one.

Lying motionless, he looked so much like a stiff corpse that flies flew around him, attracted by the awful smells. Crows stood nearby waiting to eat his flesh.
Before long it was early morning and the hunter came to inspect his traps. Finding the fawn who was playing dead, he slapped the puffed up belly and found it stiff. Seeing the flies and the mess he thought, "Ah, it has already started to stiffen. He must have been trapped much earlier this morning. No doubt the tender meat is already starting to spoil. I will skin and butcher the carcass right here, and carry the meat home."

Since he completely believed the deer was dead, he removed and cleaned the trap, and began spreading leaves to make a place to do the butchering. Realizing he was free, the fawn suddenly sprang to his feet. He ran like a little cloud blown by a swift wind, back to the comfort and safety of his mother. The whole herd celebrated his survival, thanks to learning so well from the wise teacher.

The moral is: Well-learned lessons bring great rewards.
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Sunday 24 August 2014

7 Reasons You’re Not Living the Life You Really Want















7 Reasons You’re Not Living the Life You Really Want

Reasons You're Not Living the Life You Really Want
Many people spend the whole life in endless pursuit of happiness and consequently feel unhappy. Happiness is a polysemantic word since every person finds happiness in various aspects. It doesn’t matter how much money you have, if you feel happy. You are winner and you’re able to find peace, balance and joy in your life. It’s extremely important to have a general aim in your life. This way, you won’t know in what directions to move and develop. Sometimes you need to change something in your life in order to find the path of happiness. You should try different activities, spheres and styles. It will help you understand what works and what doesn’t work for you.
Bold and determined people don’t waste time dreaming, they work hard. It provides more opportunities for them to make their dreams come true in quite short periods of time. Those people who are always hesitating and sabotaging themselves should change their habits and improve the atmosphere if they want to live a life of their dreams. I know that it’s very difficult to improve yourself, because the hardest battle is fighting against yourself. I hope this article will help you realize what prevents you from happiness.

1. You’re looking for what’s wrong in your life

If you are a pessimist, you’ll notice only bad and unpleasant things around yourself. Pessimists program their minds to look for what’s wrong in their lives. This mindset won’t allow you to reach your goals. If you can do nothing about your habit to see the world in dark colors, then you should try to develop the sense of gratitude. You should be thankful for what you have and stop complaining about things you dislike.

2. You don’t have clear goals

Unfortunately, many people do things they don’t like, because they don’t have clear goals on where they want to be. It’s hard to realize what you really want to be in this harsh and challenging world. There are so many temptations and routes you may try in your life, but you should listen to your heart and choose the one that will help you make your dreams come true. Nothing is impossible. If you have no idea what goals to set, then you should choose any direction, and then try to become the best in it. It’s better to do something than suffer from inaction and uncertainty.

3. You are surrounded with wrong people

It often happens that you are surrounded with people who bring negativity in your life and make you hesitate about your abilities and dreams. These flashes of negativity can damage your motivation and influence your subconscious mind in a negative way. Negative people always try to cause you to lose your bearings. It’s very hard to succeed and stay positive if no one believes in you and when everyone throws sand in your wheels. If you cannot change the circle of your contacts, you should try to broaden it with new acquaintances. You may find positive people using social networks. There are many thematic forums where you can communicate with people who are on a positive wave.

4. You don’t let success enter your life

Human being is the creature of habit. When you have already got used to your casual life and suddenly reach a new level of success, you find it difficult to accept the success and continue reaching new goals. This usually happens due to the fear of unknown, because you have no idea how life will change later. Try not to sabotage your dreams, instead try to find new positive moments and new opportunities in your achievements. When everything is starting to get good in your life, you shouldn’t afraid to open a new page in your life, because it means new outlook, friends and emotions.

5. You don’t focus on your goals

If you are a wishful thinker, you might be full of big ideas. You can spend hours dreaming about things you’d like to accomplish without concrete terms and actions. You may have heard that nothing happens by itself. Achievement happens when you embody your ideas and thoughts. I understand that thoughts have the tendency to realize, but you shouldn’t only wait until it happens. Create a real plan of actions and move toward your happiness step by step. It will help you see the way to your goal and understand what you should particularly do. This strategy is going to be one of the most effective secrets of goal setting.

6. You are waiting for a perfect moment

Many people believe that it’s desirable to wait until something will change for better and look for a perfect moment to start achieving their goals. To my mind, it’s a kind of self-deception that keeps your life on hold. Someone waits until they lose weight, while others want to increase their incomes or improve something in their life, but the window of opportunity is very small. That’s why you should use your opportunities right now. Wise people prefer to accept the conditions they have and move in the direction of their dreams. You should be more thankful for everything you have and you’ll have a chance to see new perspectives in your life.

7. You are lazybones

Successful people tend to suppress their feelings of laziness. This feeling can ruin families, relationships, friendships and careers. Laziness makes you believe that you aren’t good enough or ready for success. I think it’s better to be more productive and fill your life with new activities and other positive things, instead of lying on the sofa and waiting for something wonderful to happen. It’s more interesting to enjoy, explore and experience than just watching as things happen. It’s not your friends’ fault that your life is too boring. You have all chances to live a life of your dream.
Your life is your choice. You should realize that success is something you can achieve if you really want it. All you need to do is to find a correct tool to make your cherished dreams come true. A lot depends on your outlook and your mindset. Try to cultivate optimism and get rid of habits and feelings which spoil your mood and make you miserable. What other things can make you unhappy? Share you tips on how to live the life of your dreams with us please.
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