Monday, 18 August 2014

7 Ways Traveling Can Refresh Your Relationship






















7 Ways Traveling Can Refresh Your Relationship

Ways Traveling Can Refresh Your Relationship
There are moments when you and your partner realize that you need something new in your relationship. You would like to experience new emotions and feelings, which may fire up your love. When you travel together, you share common goals, enhance closeness and usually have a better romance. Furthermore, you have an opportunity to discuss basic things, have fun and share secrets with your sweetheart. You don’t have to put many efforts to fulfill this dream since traveling is absolutely available today. Everything depends on you and your desire to have a good time with your significant other. If you have already decided to travel, then you should agree your plans with your loved one, if it’s not a secret or surprise.
Many couples say that traveling together helps refresh any relationship. When you’re relaxed you have more chances to experience new pleasures. So if you feel that intimacy is missing from your relationship, you should find time to travel together. Here are a few ways traveling can refresh your relationship.

1. Making memories together

Every moment of time spent with your partner creates a basis for your relationship. Your memories are your common riches and achievements. Since life is too short you should try to create as many pleasant memories as you can. When you become old, you’ll be able to recollect warm and precious memories of your youth, sitting on the sofa together with your beloved. Moreover, your life experience and memories create your future vision of the world, because the points you find in yourself right now are the result of your actions and thoughts. Traveling will teach you to develop the skills on how to live an interesting life and strengthen your relationship.

2. New experiences

Traveling can both teach you and inspire you to get out of your comfort zone. It can help you share unforgettable moments with the person you adore. This interesting and inspiring activity fills your hearts with new experiences and broadens your horizons. Moreover, you may experience the wonder of seeing various worlds’ miracles. Plus, you may get new skills when you try to do something you’ve never done before.

3. Freedom

Every person creates their own world around themselves. Their world consists of their home, work, circle of contacts, daily schedules and problems. When you travel, you get away from your troubles and enjoy the beauty of the world around. You are free to behave the way you like and do things you adore. It’s better to do it together with the person you love. No one will judge you and your new style of life. Your significant other can even open up to you.

4. Lots of fun

Traveling is a perfect way to relax and enjoy each other’s company. When traveling, you have the right to postpone everything that can affect your relationship. You’re welcome to create amazing moments and adventures. You’ll always look back to these wonderful moments with a frank smile on your face. This world is full of places, which can help you have lots of fun and receive a big portion of happiness. Fun times can replace your negative outlook by a more positive one and it will help to strengthen your relationship.

5. Learning something new together

When you and your partner travel together, both of you can learn something new about the world. You visit different places and enjoy spectacular sights. This exciting experience can intensify your passion and love. When visiting different countries, you can learn about cultures and the history of many nations. It will make both of you more knowledgeable and all-rounded people. This way of spending time with your beloved will guarantee you new emotions and a long, healthy relationship.

6. Traveling inspires you to face life again

The main purpose of traveling is to refresh your mind and get you ready to face the life with a smile on your face. Its revitalizing effect reduces stress and helps both of you get rid of depressive moods and develop positive thinking. You’ll be full of positive emotions and memories about the place or country you visit. I believe that traveling together can help heal a relationship, if you still feel love running in your veins.

7. It invites romance

Traveling can bring you majestic and unbelievably wondrous evenings full of satisfaction and romance. You’ll have an opportunity to focus on each other and enjoy the moments spent together somewhere far from your home. There are many picturesque and romantic places around the world. Just get out of your daily routine and try something new. I’m sure that traveling won’t let your flame die, no matter how low the flame at the present moment is.
Traveling together is a perfect opportunity to revive your private life and fill it with new romantic adventures. Do you know other benefits of traveling together with your significant other? Do you believe traveling together can heal a relationship?
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Tuesday, 12 August 2014

Buddhist Tales for Young and Old




















Buddhist Tales for Young and Old
And today...it is Prince Goodspeaker and the Water Demon [Chapter 2. The Teaching of the Gods]

In time, the queen gave birth to another son, who was named Prince Moon. Shortly after both children began walking about, their mother suddenly became very sick, and died.

To help him look after his playful children, the king found a princess to become his new queen. In a few years, this queen gave birth to a beautiful bright little boy. He was named Prince Sun. Since the king was so happy, he wanted to please his queen, and reward her for bringing up all three children. So he promised to grant her one wish. The queen considered, and said, "Thank you my lord, I will make my wish at some time in the future."

As time went on, the three princes grew into wonderful playful youngsters. The queen saw that Prince Goodspeaker was intelligent and understanding. She thought, "If these two older princes remain in the palace, my son, Prince Sun, will never get a chance to be king. Therefore, I must do something to make him the next king."

One day, when the king was in a good mood, the queen respectfully approached him and reminded him of the promised wish. He was very happy and said, "Ask whatever you want!" The queen said, "Oh my husband and king, grant that after the course of your life is over, my son, Prince Sun, will be the next king."

The king was shocked by this request. He became angry and said, "My first two children are like bright stars! How can I give the kingdom to my third son? All the people will blame me. That cannot be done!" The queen kept silent.

As happy as the king had been, he now became just as unhappy. He was afraid and filled with doubt. He suspected that the queen might destroy his first-born children by some wicked means. He decided that he must make sure his children were safe.

Secretly, the king called Prince Goodspeaker and Prince Moon to him. He told them of the queen's dangerous desire. He sadly said that the only safe thing for them to do was to leave the kingdom. They should return only after their father's death, and take their rightful places ruling the kingdom. The two obedient princes accepted their father's order and prepared to leave.

In a few days they were ready. They said their sad good-byes to their father and friends, and left the palace. On their way through the royal gardens, they came upon Prince Sun. He had always been very affectionate and friendly towards his two older half-brothers. He was upset to hear that they were leaving for a very long time. So he decided that he too would leave the kingdom. The three friendly princes departed together.

For several months they travelled, until they reached the forest country of the mighty Himalayas. They were very tired and sat down under a tree. The oldest brother, Prince Goodspeaker, said to the youngest, Prince Sun, "Please go down to the nearby lake and fill some lotus leaves with water. Bring them back here so we all can drink."

They did not know that the beautiful dark blue lake was possessed by a water demon! He was permitted by his demon ruler to eat any beings that he could convince to go into the water. There was also one condition. He could not eat anyone who knew the answer to the question, 'What is the teaching of the gods?"

When Prince Sun arrived at the shore of the lake, being dry and dirty and tired, he went directly into the water without any investigation. Suddenly the water demon rose up from under the water and captured him. He asked him, "What is the teaching of the gods?" Prince Sun said, "I know the answer to that! The sun and the moon are the teachings of the gods." "You don't know the teaching of the gods, so you belong to me!" said the water demon. Then he pulled Prince Sun under the water and locked him up in a deep cave.

Since Prince Sun was delayed, Prince Goodspeaker asked the second brother, Prince Moon, to go down to the lake and bring back water in lotus leaves. When he got there, he too went directly into the water without examining. Again the water demon appeared, grabbed him, and asked, "What is the teaching of the gods?" Prince Moon said, "I know the answer to that! The four directions - North, East, South and West - these are the teachings of the gods." "You don't know the teaching of the gods, so you belong to me!", replied the water demon. Then he locked up Prince Moon in the same underwater cave with Prince Sun.

When both his brothers did not return, Prince Goodspeaker began to worry that they might be in some danger. So he himself went down to the beautiful dark blue lake. As he was a wise and careful person, he did not go directly into the water. Instead, he investigated and saw that there were two sets of footprints leading into the lake - but not coming out again! To protect himself, he got his sword and bow and arrows ready. He began to walk around the lake.

Seeing that this prince did not go straight into the lake, the water demon appeared to him disguised as a humble villager. He said to him, "My dear friend, you look tired and dirty from much walking. Why don't you get into the water and bathe, drink, and eat some lotus roots?"

Remembering the one-way footprints, Prince Goodspeaker said, "You must be some kind of demon disguised as a human! What have you done with my brothers?" Surprised at being recognized so quickly, the water demon returned to his true ferocious appearance. He replied to the wise prince, "By my rights, I have captured your brothers!"

The prince asked, "For what reason?" "So that soon I can gobble them up!", the demon answered, "I have permission from my demon ruler to eat all those who go into this lake who do not know the teaching of the gods. If anyone does know the teaching of the gods, I am not allowed to eat him."

The Prince asked, "Why do you need to know this? What is the advantage to a demon like you, to know the teaching of the gods?" The water demon replied, "I know there must be some advantage to me." "Then I will tell you what the gods teach," said Prince Goodspeaker, "but I have a problem. Look at me. I am covered with dust and dirt from travelling. I cannot speak about wise teachings in this condition."

By now, the water demon realized that this prince was especially wise. So he washed and refreshed him. He gave him water to drink from lotus leaves, and tender lotus roots to eat. He prepared a comfortable seat for him, decorated with pretty wildflowers. After laying aside his sword and bow and arrows, the Enlightenment Being sat on the adorned seat. The ferocious demon sat by his feet, just like a student listening to a respected teacher.

Prince Goodspeaker said, "This is the teaching of the gods:

You should be ashamed to do unwholesome deeds.
You should be afraid to do unwholesome deeds.
You should always do wholesome deeds -
that bring happiness to others, and help mankind.
Then you will shine with the inner light of calm and peacefulness."

The water demon was pleased with this answer, and said, "Worthy prince, you have completely satisfied my question. You have made me so happy that I will give you back one of your brothers. Which one do you choose?"

Prince Goodspeaker said, "Release my younger brother, Prince Sun." To this the demon replied, "My lord prince, wise one, you know the teaching of the gods but you do not practice it!" The prince asked, "Why do you say that?" The demon said, "Because you leave the older one to die, and save the younger. You do not respect elders!"

The prince then said, "Oh demon, I know the teaching of the gods, and I do practise it. We three princes came to this forest because of the youngest brother. His mother requested our father's kingdom for him. So it was for our protection that our father sent us here. The young Prince Sun joined us out of friendship. But if we return to the court without him, and say he was eaten by a water demon who wanted to know the teaching of the gods, who would believe us? They would think we killed him because he was the cause of our danger. This would bring shame to us and unhappiness to the kingdom. Fearing such unwholesome results, I tell you again to release the young Prince Sun."

The water demon was so pleased with this answer that he said, "Well done, well done, my lord. You know the true teaching of the gods, and you do practice that true teaching. I will gladly give back both your brothers!" So saying, he went down into the lake and brought both princes back to shore. They were wet, but unharmed.

Later on, the Bodhisatta gave further helpful advice to the demon. He said, "Oh water demon, my new friend, you must have done many unwholesome deeds in your previous lives, so that you were born as a flesh eating demon. And if you continue in this way, you will be trapped in a terrible state even in later lives. For unwholesome deeds lead to shame, fear and unpleasant rebirth. But wholesome deeds lead to self-respect, peace and pleasant rebirth. Therefore, it would be much better for you to do pure deeds, rather than impure deeds, from now on." This turned the demon from his past ways, and the princes lived together happily under his protection.

One day, word came that the king had died. So the three princes, as well as their friend the water demon, returned to the capital city. Prince Goodspeaker was crowned as king. Prince Moon became the chief minister, and Prince Sun became commander of the army. The water demon was awarded a safe place to live, where he was well fed, cared for and entertained for the rest of his life. In this way they all acquired wholesome meritorious thoughts, leading to rebirth in a heaven world.

The moral is: Unwholesome actions bring shame and fear. Wholesome actions bring self-respect and peace

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Saturday, 9 August 2014

7 Instant Ways to Heal Your Hidden Hurts















7 Instant Ways to Heal Your Hidden Hurts
It’s not surprising that hidden hurts can deteriorate the quality of your life. It’s difficult to identify your past hurts since they are hidden deeply in your sub-consciousness. You shouldn’t feel frustrated and hopeless if you fail to change the situation for better. Try to focus on the solution of this problem and find effective steps to healing. The problem is that each person needs individual approaches to overcome their hurts. Furthermore, it’s desirable to start leading an active life, full of new and interesting events in order to clear your mind from the past failures. Unfortunately, many people still seem to run into the same conflicts and experience negativity again. Hopefully these little tips will help you heal your hidden hurts.
1. Admit that you have a problem
The first step to healing hidden hurts is to realize that you have a psychological conflict inside. You should be conscious of this unwanted condition, if you really want to start the process of its healing. When you see and realize the truth of life, you’ll understand what you are fighting with. It will make your way to successful results easier. Don’t close your eyes to the fact that hidden hurts can disturb your dreams. Examine your heart and start healing your soul today.
2. Make peace a goal
This technique is very effective when you cannot find peace in your life. You should set peace as a new priority of your life. Spend more time doing things that bring you inner peace and boost your mood. If you find that certain activities change your perception of the world and fill your soul with light and peace, then you should do them on a regular basis.
3. Let your hurts out
Although everything depends on the type of hidden hurts you are suffering from, there are some emotions such as anger and hatred, which should be immediately let out, because they are extremely dangerous and harmful to both your physical and emotional well-being. It’s better to express your negative emotions and hurts in a healthy way. Nowadays there are a lot of techniques to get rid of anger and hatred. Go to the gym and beat a punching bag furiously. Physical activity can be a good antidote to hidden or open anger.
4. Forgive people who have hurt you
Forgiveness is the quality of strong and wise people. You should acknowledge that all people are allowed to make mistakes. Only a strong desire to get rid of hidden hurts can help you find the ability to forgive and overcome your emotions.
Human beings have an instinct to hurt back, when they have been hurt. Unfortunately, many people prefer to revenge and keep hurts hidden deeply in their heart. I think it’s better to forgive, if you don’t want to leave an open wound in your soul.
5. Encourage yourself
If there are no people in your circle of contacts who can give you a helping hand and encourage you, then you should take the initiative to support yourself. Try to give yourself things and pleasures you didn’t get earlier. These actions can help you turn your hurts and inner conflicts into your strengths and advantages. If you follow this advice, you’ll have a chance to build yourself up.
6. Talk it out
This is going to be the best way to help your hidden hurts fly away. I understand that it may be frightening to open up and talk about your inner worries and feelings, but it can be a start to the process of healing. You need some time to understand how it pains and how these hurts affect your mental and physical health. After a considerable reflection on your hidden hurts, you may realize that it isn’t a problem at all and set yourself free from these sufferings.
7. Move on
No matter what happens in your life, you should always be strong and patient enough to keep moving forward. Don’t be afraid of scars, which can remain in the depths of your soul. It’s impossible to have a better future until you overcome annoying hidden hurts. Make a plan of actions which will help you start a new life. Alyson Noel once said, “The only thing a person can ever really do is to keep moving forward. Take big leap forward without hesitation, without once looking back. Simply forget the past and forge toward the future.”
This article can be the key to your mental recovery, if you follow these pieces of advice. I’m sure you are courageous enough to move on and fight things which make you feel miserable. You should always remember that you are the only smith of your happiness. What other steps to get rid of hidden hurts do you know? Share your tips with us, please.
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